Good Morning from Prince Edward Island,
Kettle on? Cuppa ready? Great.
Thank you for letting me into your space and time today.
Here is today's' PEI Covid News
Prince Edward Island has a new 'friend' in Dolly Parton. Fantastic news for young readers and their families. Thank you to all involved and to Dolly. Story here.
Todays' thread I am going to pull on is 'friendship.'
Being a friend to someone, I don't know is sometimes easier. Only because I don't layer on what I think this person should do or could do to make their life or my life better.
What does being a friend mean?
"Much of the vitality in a friendship lies in the honouring of differences, not simply in the enjoyment of similarities." ~ James Fredericks
It saddens me when I see or read people being disrespectful, especially towards those who don't look or sound like members of their own family. And this happens locally as well as globally. We are tribalists, after all.
When I want to blame others for my lot in life, I see the world through a negative mindset.
Oh, but how my world illuminates in full colour when I choose friendship with myself carefully and intentionally.
When I treat myself with dignity and respect, it reflects in my attitude towards others.
I don't see the world as it is. I see the world as I see myself.
Or as Anais Nin states, "We don't see the world as it is, we see it as we are"
James Allen, in his 1907 classic book, As a man thinketh, writes the following;
Mind is the Master power that moulds and makes,
And Man is Mind, and evermore he takes
The tool of Thought, and, shaping what he wills,
Brings forth a thousand joys, a thousand ills:—
He thinks in secret, and it comes to pass:
Environment is but his looking-glass.
There is so much to learn from other cultures.
The top layer of our skin, the epidermis, is only .05 mm thick. It's the only layer that is visible to the eyes. Remove it, and you have 7 billion people who are all the same colour and wanting the same thing.
"There are no strangers here; only friends you haven't yet met.'"
- William Butler Yeats
What little I know. I love learning.In the Hindi language, which is one of the two official languages of India, there is there a word, Genshai (pronounced Gen-shy)
Children are taught to never look at, touch, or address another person in a way that makes the other person feel small. You can only become a true practitioner of Genshai when you treat yourself the same way.
I enjoyed Life at the Frontier: The Conversational Nature of Reality, a Ted Talk by David Whyte.
I recently heard Jordan Peterson state, "examine your resentfulness; it is revelatory." I found it to be a powerful statement worthy of the time given in doing the exercise.
Because.
Viktor Frankel wrote an influential book in nine days. The book Man's Search for Meaning is favourite reading for millions. A quote from it.
"Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last human freedoms-to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to chose one's own way."
Attitude is everything.
Your relationship with yourself is and always be directly reflected in all your relationship with others. ~ Vironila Tugaleva
Let's treat ourselves and each other with respect.
We all come from here.
While writing today, I listened to Célimène Daudet. Loved it. Her piano playing is heartfelt and yet, crisp. Sample listen to her new album, Haiti mon amour, here.
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Have a nice and friendly weekend.
With love from Prince Edward Island,
Bruce + Millie
"A smile is a curve that sets everything straight." ~ Phyllis Diller
ps. Your Morning Smile
Two children went into their parent's bathroom and noticed the scale in the corner.
"Whatever you do," cautioned one child to the younger one, "don't step on it!"
"Why not?" asked the sibling.
"Because every time mom does, she lets out an awful scream!"
Comments
Jen Cash said:
Thank you for keeping your blog positive and full of gentle reminders of how to spread kindness, compassion, and understanding. Enjoy your friendship post. Keep up the encouragement! It makes a difference! Can’t wait until we can return to PEI! Are borders open yet? Hopefully waiting from Maine.
April 22, 2021
Dorothy Michalek said:
Thoroughly enjoyed the friendship article. And so true the section regarding friendship with oneself. As to the earth timelapse – scary. Also scary is the ongoing privatization of water. A thought provoking story on water is “H2O: The Molecule That Made Us”; it aired on PBS last year.
Is it my imagination, or are the snow (flurries) later than usual?
Thank you.
April 18, 2021
Julie MacKenzie said:
I loved the time lapse of our “big blue marble”…but, it was also disturbing. To see what humans are doing to it. Scary! Loved that Dolly Parton is in partnership with PEI in a reading program for the “littles”. I love reading….& I taught my daughters the love of reading too. Such a positive program…a kick-start for literacy. Awesome! (Start them young) :) Loved the blog Bruce….Keep them coming. I look forward to them every weekend! Thank you. Have a wonderful weekend!
April 18, 2021
Lynn said:
Scary to watch the time lapse! What are we doing to our world? Thank yo for the wake-up call.
Have a great week!
peace
Lynn
April 17, 2021
Penny Wright said:
I look forward to your blog every week.
See you on your opening weekend.
April 17, 2021
Murdock Morrison said:
Yes friendships are so very special as it binds people together in a cohesive and positive way . I cherish our friendships as it allows us to share so many things in our lives and brings fun and happiness each time we connect. Lots of links in your blog that are meaningful and will get to eventually as each blog is put in a special Bruce’s Blogs folder to go back to over time. Have a great week. Murdock and Connie
April 17, 2021
Cynthia said:
Whoa. What happened? Life happens.
The picture with rain seems appropriate for your blog today.
I love Dolly. A wonderful soul and blessing to and for others.
Yes. The unknown can be scary. I decide to find out truth and facts daily/
Love the piano. Thank you to Phyllis Diller. And she played the piano beautifully. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mRK5A45Qrc
“We are all just walking each other home” Ram Dass
Thank you Bruce.
Cynthia
April 17, 2021
Linda Zimmerman said:
Love this
April 17, 2021