Ego & Blind Spots + Why is Theatre Essential? + Where Are You Calling From?
Good Morning from Prince Edward Island,
Glady’s it is the weekend and time for a cuppa!
I asked our daughters in their late teens if there were anything they would like me to change about myself. Seeing that I was their father, I wanted them to be proud of their Dad.
In unison, they chimed in. “Yes, Dad….your silly jokes!”
Sorry, ladies, that was a change too great for me to make.
I can’t swear to it, but I think they have grown to appreciate my attempts to bring a little fun to life now and then.
Sometimes, I like to sit and read at our dining room table, and Millie likes to watch. How cute is this?
I am still reading and marking up Principles, Life + Work by Ray Dalio. A five hundred-page testament to Ray Dalio’s experiences in becoming one of the world's leading experts in economics while not being an economist. He sought to learn and document lessons learned from everything he set out to do as a man, father, business owner and philanthropist. The lessons learned blossomed into a set of ‘principles.’ The book is not only about ‘business,’ but about the business of life as well.
It is tough to choose only a few quotes from his book, but here we go.
“Whatever circumstances life brings you, you will be more likely to succeed and find happiness if you take responsibility for making your decisions well instead of complaining about things being beyond your control.” ~ Ray Dalio
“One of the hardest things for people to do is to objectively look down on themselves within their circumstances so that they can act as the machine’s designer and manager. Most people remain stuck in the perspective of being a worker within the machine. If you can recognize the differences between those roles and that it is much more important that you are a good designer/manager of your life than a good worker in it, you will be on the right path. To be successful, the "designer/manager you" have to be objective about what the "worker you" is really like, not believing in yourself more than you deserve, or putting yourself in jobs you shouldn't be in. Instead of having this strategic perspective, most people operate emotionally and in the moment; their lives are a series of undirected emotional experiences, going from one thing to the next. If you want to look back on your life and feel you've achieved what you wanted to do, you can’t operate that way.” ~ Ray Dalio
“Humility can even be more valuable than having good mental maps if it leads you to seek out better answers than you can come up on your own.” Ray Dalio
“The two biggest barriers to good decision making are your ego and your blind spots.”~ Ray Dalio
In earlier blogs, I had written how COVID had made it hard to focus long enough to relax and read. The anxiety this dang virus caused was debilitating. So I set out to devise a disciplined system of scheduling my time on the calendar. It started with paying attention to my habits and my routines. Once I could document them, I could look at them and decide what was useful. When lined up against my desire to “grow’ in knowledge and understanding, I made the necessary changes.
You may find this article useful. Written by Alexandra Paddock, Lecturer in English and Assistant Senior Tutor, University of Oxford and Kirsten Shepherd-Barr, Professor of English and Theatre Studies, University of Oxford. If you have found reading challenging at the best of times yet desire to do so, you may find this helpful. Five tips to get reading again if you’ve struggled during the pandemic.
This week a young poet, Amanda Gorman, took the stage and the world by storm after reciting her poem a Hill to Climb at the US Presidential inauguration. If you have not seen it, please take a watch/listen.
Below is an introduction to the film: Why Theatre is Essential to Democracy.
Truth comes from the collision of different ideas, and theatre plays an essential role in showing us that truth, says legendary artistic director Oskar Eustis. In this powerful talk, Eustis outlines his plan to reach (and listen to) people in places across the US where the theatre, like many other institutions, has turned its back -- like the deindustrialized Rust Belt. "Our job is to try to hold up a vision to America that shows not only who all of us are individually, but that welds us back into the commonality that we need to be," Eustis says. "That's what the theatre is supposed to do."
I salute and celebrate the talents of those I have written about today. I share another quote from Ray Dalio’s book, “Principles.”
“Most people don't understand what it means to be radically open-minded. They describe open-mindedness as being "open to being wrong" but stubbornly cling to whatever opinion is in their head and fail to see an understanding of the reasoning behind alternative points of view. To be radically open-minded, you must:
a. Sincerely believe that you might not know the best possible path and recognize that your ability to deal well with "not knowing" is more important whatever it is you do know.
There are six more principles associated with this statement, but I will leave it up to you to seek out his book.
Let's Dance - Staying Alive
Have a nice weekend and a great week ahead.
With love from Prince Edward Island,
Bruce & Millie
Ps. Your Morning Smile
Gallagher opened the morning newspaper and was dumbfounded to read in the obituary column that he had died. He quickly phoned his best friend, Finney.
‘Did you see the paper?’ asked Gallagher. ‘They say I died!!’
Yes, I saw it!’ replied Finney. ‘Where are ye callin’ from?’