Good Morning from Warren Grove, Prince Edward Island
Over the last few months, I have been sharing a bit of my life’s journey to date.
There are several reasons why. Importantly it awakens a latent desire to write.
~ Gustav Flaubert
Writing is a craft. I want to learn.
I have always been an observer.
The hospitality industry has taught me a lot.
I discovered we are all unique, and we are all the same.
Bias and opinions aside, we all value the same thing.
To love and be loved and respected.
"Know that success and inner peace are your birthrights, that you are a child of God and as such that you're entitled to a life filled with joy, love and happiness." ~ Wayne Dyer
As a child, daydreaming would help to take my mind away from what was happening around me.
I will honour my mother and father and respect their history, which they brought to the world of parenting.
Being told at five years of age, I was adopted was cause for my celebrating in some ways. After hearing the news, I remember going to my room and doing a happy dance.
The news explained a lot even to a five year old.
I always felt somewhat on the outside. I landed in a family universe that didn’t seem to be quite the right fit.
But I am very grateful; the alternative may have been not being given a chance to live at all.
It was garbage day. All the neighbours put their trash out for pick up. Mrs. Cameron, our neighbour, had put out a bundle of magazines tied together in the criss-cross fashion with jute string. The top one said, Better Homes and Gardens. I thought, Better Homes, what does that look like?
I had a bundle of magazines under my arms to smuggle into my room.
The magazines brought daydream ammunition to a young boy.
"If you don't daydream and kind of plan things out in your imagination, you never get there. So you have to start someplace." ~ Robert Duvall
When I was eight years old, I started going to church. I would walk the mile by myself to attend Sunday mornings.
"But somewhere within each of us, buried at varying depths depending on the age and degree of neglect or abuse, shame or coercion we endured, there is a resistant, daydreaming, rebellious, creative, unique child -- a true self who is waiting." ~ Gloria Steinem
In my mid-teens, I left home and headed to North Carolina to find work on a golf course. More about that at a later date.
In my late teens, I started working for a national menswear chain. For two years, I transferred from Moncton to Fredericton to Edmonton, Alberta.
My very first suit was a cream silk three-piece Nino Cerruti stunner. I added a powder blue shirt and dark blue patent leather shoes with light blue suede tops to complete the look.
Thinking about “the look” causes me to laugh. With the suit and my shoulder-length black hair, the only thing missing was the Cadillac, the bling and the fedora.
After earning enough money, I purchased my first car. An MG Midget. A go-cart with walls.
Two things come to mind when I think of that car. Being hijacked and how I got my driver’s license.
I will start with how I earned the privilege to drive.
Before the menswear experience, I attempted to go to college to study retail.
While there, I felt I should get my license. The Motor Vehicle office was only two blocks away from the school. I walked up and asked if I could write the exam. We set up the appointment and later wrote it and passed.
Next, I set up the appointment to take the driver’s test. The day came, and I needed a car. I didn’t think it was a big deal, so I asked the receptionists at the front desk of the register’s office if I could use hers.
She looked at me for a moment and said, “I don’t know you.” I responded, “I know, but I go to school here, and I need to get my license today. So I was hoping you could help me.”
She thought for two seconds, looked at me again and said, “ok.”
“Thank you, is it possible you could drive me and walk back while I take the test?”
She did.
I met the gentleman who would test my driving skills. We both got into the car. I start the engine.
I am a bit nervous but convinced it would be easy, and I will get my license today. The examiner gives me commands to do. Turn left, turn right, back into space, etc.
I can’t remember how long we were testing before his commands directed us back to where we started.
He looked at me with a clipboard in his hands. Then, he says to me, “I only have one question.”
“Sure.”
“Have you driven a car before?”
“No, sir, this was my first time.”
Looking a little shocked and guilty all the same time, he said, “well, I have to fail you.”
“That’s fine; when can I retake it?”
We booked the next one. I failed.
And I booked another one. I failed.
After the fourth time ever driving a car and parked back at where our adventure began, he said, ‘if I fail you, you will have to wait one year to retake your test. However, I am going to pass you, and the only advice I can give you is, slow down.”
It was 1975.
Seat belt regulation came into effect July 1, 1987.
I am forever grateful to Colleen, the receptionist. We remain friends to this day.
It took another year or so before I had my first car.
But on the first weekend with my new car I was hijacked by someone trying to be free from his troubles.
Everyone has a first car story; I will share mine next week.
We went to the theatre to see the The Rita MacNeil story. The show was very well done. The show gave me more appreciation for this wonderful lady, who has since passed away.
She and I had tea together in our earlier years at The Preserve Company.
Her powerful lyrics speaks to all of us.
With lots of love from Prince Edward Island I hope you have a great weekend!
Bruce & MillePs. Your Morning Smile
A man takes his place in the theatre, but his seat is too far from the stage.
He whispers to the usher, "This is a mystery, and I have to watch a mystery close up. Get me a better seat, and I'll give you a handsome tip."
The usher moves him into the second row, and the man hands the usher a quarter.
The usher looks at the quarter, leans over and whispers, "The wife did it."
Comments
Derinda said:
Wonderful amusing story about your driving test
You are a great story teller. Went to Rita’s Tea Room and bought her CD and also Book. She had a hard and interesting life. Hopefully we will be visiting your Jam Factory next year.
Derinda
August 11, 2021
Susan B said:
Thank you Bruce for another great blog !!
I cannot wait for the next one.
Have a great week.
Susan B
August 08, 2021
Kathy said:
Love the licence story! Very similar to my brother Marven! He lived in Toronto and went into the truck driving industry, first time out with him they asked if he ever drove a transport, he said oh yes, they new better but hired him anyway! He said he didn’t know if they were desperate or just maybe admired his ghumpsion!
August 08, 2021
Lynn said:
Well Bruce, I have to say you seem never to have lacked for gumption! It’s so much fun learning your story, bit by bit. May the Lord bless you as you continue on your journey!
Thanks as always for your blog - a Saturday “Fix” for many of us. 8)
L
August 08, 2021
Susan said:
Your life experience blog is entertaining and I love reading about your adventures! The receptionist must be a a very kind and trusting lady! Your success has to be in part that you are never afraid to ask for what you want!! Look forward to next week!
August 07, 2021
Jack & Lillian Paul said:
Thank you Bruce for yet another great story. WE loved listening to Rita McNeil & a visit to her Tea Shop was on my bucket list….did it in 2013.
August 07, 2021
Jean Staben said:
Couldn’t believe my eyes when I saw your blog speaking about Rita. My husband and I attended the show as well and that very song has been rattling around in my head since. Thank you Bruce.
August 07, 2021
Valerie & John said:
Bruce, you are one of a kind. Your driving licence experience is priceless. Hope you’re having a good summer. Hot temperatures and smoke here on the prairie. Take care!
August 07, 2021
Julie MacKenzie said:
Today’s blog was incredible! How you convinced Colleen to lend you her car for your first driving test..was amazing! Your stories never cease to amaze me. Your description of the situation is just so entertaining & put a smile on my face. A great read this morning. I look forward to your blog every weekend. You are a wonderful writer. Thanks for sharing your stories with all of us.
August 07, 2021
Gillian Keane said:
Rita MacNeil entertained my young daughters and I on many trips between Kingston and Ottawa after my husband changed jobs. We knew all the words and sang them loudly and happily down the highway. One summer my husband and I took our girls to the Big Pond concert on its 25th anniversary to see her sing. My introduction to Cape Breton.
August 07, 2021
Marg Gordon said:
Your learning to drive story is unbelievable!!! What a brave lady to lend you her car and you didn’t crack it up – incredible! You really need to continue writing!
August 07, 2021
Kay said:
What a great story & such perseverance! Can’t wait for your next blog.
August 07, 2021
Linda said:
So enjoy your stories. Especially your Morning Smile. Please keep writing your blog. Thanks so much for sharing. Have a wonderful week and stay safe. 💓
August 07, 2021
Bev Shapiro MI, USA said:
Bruce, you crack me up!! I have never met anyone with either the (possibly misplaced?) confidence or the audacity to do some of the things you have attempted, AND accomplished. So fun to read your stories. Courage is one of your many strengths.
Thanks, Bev
August 07, 2021
althea said:
Morning, B. Hahahahaha. Thanks. A.
August 07, 2021
Pierre Bedard said:
Looking forward to more stories.
The driving test story: incredible!
August 07, 2021
Joan Busch said:
Good morning Bruce from BC. Just having my first coffee and listened to Rita, her song is so beautiful. I wish every child could hear & understand the meaning of the words.
August 07, 2021
Wendy Jackson said:
Bruce, I cannot wait to get my breakfast ready to sit down with my coffee and read your Saturday Blog! Your stories are so enjoyable and you describe them wonderfully. Thank you for taking the time to do this for everyone. They always seem so short and I wish they could be longer but you are a very busy guy and I thank you for the moments you do give. May the good Lord continue to bless you! Enjoy your weekend :)
August 07, 2021
Nina said:
I always enjoy your stories and insights – thank you for sharing!
August 07, 2021
Barbara Amsler said:
I look so forward to your weekend blog. It never disappoints.
I think the best education I received was 20 years in the hospitality industry :].
This mornings blog brought a laugh and a tear.
Thanks.
August 07, 2021
Suzi said:
“The hospitality industry has taught me a lot.” And it is obvious, your were an excellent student! Love reading the history. You are doing a beautiful job of painting the picture!
August 07, 2021